The divorce is NOT final......

I just had a thought......as I was reading the blog of my friend, who is actually my ex-husband, I started to think that our divorce is somewhat unique. It was more of a beginning than an end. We dated, we got along; we married, we got along...........well, most of the time. He cracked me up most of the time and got on my last fucking nerve the rest of the time. We came to a point where we....well, actually he decided that we did not need to be married any longer. I soon came to realize that this was a wise decision.

It was not an ugly divorce, if you had it when you got here you got to keep it and the things that we acquired while we were married were very nicely divided between us.

The point is, now we are friends, we get along much better since we got divorced. It's a friendship that in some ways is based on "love" if I can go so far as to call it that. I'm married and he's married and our spouses know that we communicate. It's not like we hang out, just talk sometimes. He still cracks me up and I am so glad that I know him. He's a great guy and a great friend, he just wasn't a great husband FOR ME.

Anyway, divorce doesn't always have to mean the end of a relationship, in my case it was actually the beginning of a much different one with the same person.

Here I go.......

I always seem to have something to bitch about. Not to really bitch, it's more that I need to verbalize things that I am thinking but don't want to bother any one with. This leads to a lot of talking to myself in the car and that just doesn't seem helathy. So, here I go with my blogs when I just need to get it out!